Welcome to The Pre-Marriage Course Online

The Pre-Marriage Course is a series of five sessions, designed for couples considering marriage and wishing to build a strong and lasting relationship. While based on Christian principles, it is relevant and helpful for any couple with or without a Christian faith or church background. The founders, Nicky and Sila Lee, have been married for over forty years and speak regularly on relationships and marriage preparation. They are co-authors of The Marriage Book. For more information, click here.

How does it work?

The course runs exactly as it would be if you were attending in person. If you are not in the same location, you can still do the course by having each ordered a journal, watching the film of the relevant session simultaneously and conducting your conversations when indicated.

  • Each session lasts for 1 hour 45 minutes, half of which will be for your conversations.

  • The films will be available to you immediately, you will be given access as soon as you sign up.

  • If you are in the same location, try to make it feel as special as possible. Don’t forget the candles, snacks, drinks, older kids in another room and the younger ones in bed.

When does it start?

You can begin the course whenever you like, and it will run for 5 consecutive weeks. Email for more information.

What happens when we sign up?

Once you register, we will send you the link for you to connect to the online course.  

We will be running the course free of charge. The only cost you will incur is purchasing two course journals - you will need one each - and these can be bought from The Alpha Shop.

Please allow up to 10 days for delivery.

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What to expect


  • Communication

  • Conflict

  • Commitment

  • Connection

  • Adventure

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